Community Guidelines

To register with Deviance, you must be at least of legal age. If this is not the case, please contact the an organization for young people with BDSM preferences, which will answer all your questions and show you other ways to meet someone.

Convicted sex offenders or persons charged with a sexual offense are not allowed to create a profile on Deviance. If you have discovered such a person, please let us know immediately.

What other members share about themselves in private conversations or the content you exchange is your private matter and must not be shared. Neither in word, writing, nor image. As long as no one behaves inappropriately, the conversation is only between the two of you.

You can’t agree with everyone, and you can’t please everyone either. However, always remain polite. Personal, insulting, aggressive, or racist attacks, criminal accusations or defamation, bullying, and any other form of disrespectful behavior have no place in dating. If your conversation partner violates these rules of conduct, don’t hesitate to report them to us immediately.

Only upload images and texts for which you hold the rights. This means either because you created or wrote them, you are depicted in them, or you have explicit permission from the rights holder. Violations of personal and copyright will result in the deletion of at least the content in question.

You do not increase your dating chances by creating multiple profiles or impersonating someone else. On the contrary, duplicate registrations will be deleted immediately; no one appreciates fake profiles.

Neither in photos nor in texts are children, minors, or animals allowed. To avoid misunderstandings, this includes seemingly harmless contexts such as family photos or pictures from a recent dog walk. This rule also applies to fiction, implications, symbolic language, emojis, graphics, and motifs referring to children, minors, or animals. If the abuse of minors or animals becomes a topic in any private conversation, please report that person immediately.

Dehumanizing, discriminatory, racist, homophobic, transphobic, and ableist statements, implications, or motifs have no place on Deviance.

Because that is also considered sexual harassment. Even if the individuals depicted are clothed or if it’s a story you find erotic in text form, we treat this as strictly as the issue of nude images.

The depiction, description, or even suggestion of violence and extreme practices is strictly prohibited. This includes death, mutilation, rape (even if simulated, such as in rape play), scat, incest, blood, wounds, and more.

In order to protect our members, we do not allow the public viewing of contact data such as address, telephone number, e-mail addresses, user profiles in social networks and messengers on Deviance.

Our users are here to connect with each other through online dating. Therefore, we do not tolerate any form of advertising, promotion, or calls to action. This includes selling goods and services, promoting events, other websites/apps, fundraising appeals, demonstrations, missing person notices, chain letters, recruiting, or similar. This also applies to unrelated advertising. If you wish to advertise on Deviance, please contact us at [email protected]. Together and transparently, we will find a way.