find your play partner

The meeting platform for BDSM and fetish enthusiasts


In the Deviance shop, you’ll find
plenty of sweaters, hoodies,
shirts, caps, cotton and gym bags,
and even mugs 
with unmistakably suggestive motifs.
with our products!

Whether you’re a Dom, Sub, Switch, or Brat, whether you’re into Bondage, Latex, or DD/lg: Our collections are both suitable for kinky gatherings and everyday wear, available in many different sizes and colors to choose from!

We want
that people
who unknowingly
hide from
each other,
each other.

Education, safe, healthy and
consensual practices are
what we deeply care for.

What drives us

Our mission is to drag BDSM, kink and fetish
out of the dirty corner, give the lifestyle a new
attractive face and work towards

What we stand up for

In a world where alternative lifestyles, which a few years ago were
considered repulsive a few years ago are becoming more and more
accepted, it is time that our lifestyle is also
our lifestyle is met with more openness.

In a world where alternative lifestyles that were once
considered repulsive are becoming increasingly accepted,
it’s time for our lifestyle to be met with more
openness as well.

What our users say

“I love this great platform. Already had a lot of good conversations and met nice guys… 👌


And maybe I’ve finally hit THE jackpot ❤️😉”


on Twitter

“I would like to thank you sooooo much. After only about 1 week I found the person who now means everything to me. Not only in the BDSM area. Despite Covid, we got to know and love each other. Without you, we would probably never have met, even though we had lived in the same city for years.”


Message on Twitter

“In my opinion, the first useful platform for the community.”


Comment on Jodel

“Just because I’m so damn happy, here’s another advertisement for Deviance:


I’ve been so incredibly happy for 3 months now and our kinks harmonize so perfectly. We would never have met without Deviance. Thank you 😍”


on Twitter

“You have created a wonderful meeting place with Deviance! For me, it has already led to valuable, special, and enriching contacts in various ways, and I find the interaction with each other very appreciative. I would almost say that Deviance is a safe space for me, where I feel secure to extend my feelers a bit further and together with some of the Deviance contacts, to make fantasies become reality.”


via e-mail

“Thanks to you, I met the most amazing sub I could have wished for and we’ve been in the early stages of a partnership since Tuesday. So you’ve created at least one love story in the beta.


Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️”


on Twitter

“I’m speechless, seriously. I can only say thank you. I’m taking a look on your website and I love the way you give informations about bondage, movies, music and other things. Finally a right way. I will subscribe on your page. One more time. Thank you.”



“I love this Slow-Dating concept from Deviance. The principle really works for me: I consciously take my time to look at profiles, and when I have a match, I have more patience to really focus on the other person because I’m not rushing to search someone else in parallel.”


on Twitter

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