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KatKristall

Courage for BDSM: How to master your coming out with ease

A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Selfbondage – Bound by your own hands

Tying doesn’t always require two. Even tying yourself up alone can unlock new heights of pleasure – as long as you keep some safety aspects in mind.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

AB/DL: A fascinating kink and its aspects

AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

You’re not a prick for using PRICK!

PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Hentai: From “perverse” in Japanese to global popularity

Hentai is Japanese erotica in manga and anime and is the most searched term worldwide on porn sites. This article explores the history, fetishes, and cultural aspects of this art form.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Feminizer in BDSM: A journey into roleplay and degradation

Feminizer in BDSM: A transformative role that plays with power, degradation, and feminization. Explore the facets of this kink.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

BDSM Outing: What is it and is it necessary?

Why an outing can be important, how it can change your life, and when it might not make sense.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Talk dirty to me: Dirty talk ideas beyond cum cannons and juicy slits

Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone…

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Sounding – The Inn’s and Out’s

Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Say no to drugs! Especially to BDSM and drugs…

BDSM and drugs, both promise a high. But these extremes do not belong together. In this article, you’ll find a concentrated load of raised index fingers.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Fear play – Wild for fear

Fear play is about playing with fear. The top scares the bottom person in a consensual way and both are sexually aroused through this.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Keyholder – Playing the key role

Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Products

Chastity belt – Closed for fun

Chastity belt: For some a sex toy; for others, an instrument of torture. Find out here what they look like and what they can do.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Locktober – orgasm fasting

Every autumn, the hashtag Locktober appears on social media, calling for 31 days of chastity. But why do people do this to themselves?

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Fire play: Literally playing with fire

Fire Play is one of the particularly hot BDSM practices. Quite literally. Heat, danger, and fear create a very special mix.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

YKINMKBYKIO: I don’t understand it, but I like it!

YKINMKBYKIO stands for Your Kink is not my Kink but your Kink is okay. This is a basic principle of the BDSM community promoting tolerance.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Intox play: Is it BDSM?

Intox Play and Chemsex are currently big topics in the sex-positive community. But can playing under the influence of drugs even be considered BDSM?

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Yiffing: a furry affair

Yiffing is a term from the so-called Furry scene and refers to any form of sexual activity that takes place between such characters.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Humiliation – when shame is put on display

Humiliation in BDSM often involves public exposure. You can find out exactly what this looks like and why you like it here.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Playing on a thin edge: knife play

Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Sensory Deprivation: BDSM completely out of senses

Sensory Deprivation refers to an popular aspect of BDSM in which the five senses are manipulated, restricted, or taken away.

by KatKristall | BDSM & Society, Stories

BDSM and Pride: Should kink be part of the parade?

Does BDSM belong at Pride? A question that has been much discussed for years. Here are the arguments for and against, as well as a few possible solutions.