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Lena wanted to switch to Telegram right away, and Matthias found that suspicious. The match nearly fell apart over it. Today the two host their own play party, and their checklist has raised more questions than it answered. Read here how a match on Deviance can turn into a love story.
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A porn film festival, cabaret with a riding crop and a Halloween home stretch that never lets up: these are the best kinky events in October, curated by the Berlin Kink Calendar.
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Preparing for anal the right way. The experts at anuux explain how to start your adventure relaxed, clean and confident, and why good preparation is the best foreplay.
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Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.
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BDSM is not violence. The guest article by KAPA clearly explains why consent is the crucial difference and why education is so important.
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Leather is often associated with dominance, sensuality, and strength. Fetishists value the material for its texture, scent, and connection to power and eroticism. Faux leather can also serve as a vegan alternative for some.
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For fetishists, armpits combine intimacy with sensuality. Scents, skin, and their often-hidden nature make them an erotic focal point, woven into fantasies and touch.
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Scents act directly on the limbic system, triggering strong emotional and erotic responses. For fetishists, the smell of skin, clothing, or intimate areas often takes center stage in their fantasies.
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For fetishists, the appeal of mysophilia lies in the allure of dirt. Touch, smell, and the breaking of societal taboos create a unique erotic tension.
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Probably you’ve seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?
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Labels provide security, and Germans in particular are known for wanting to standardize everything and call it by name. Why this can sometimes be annoying in BDSM…
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” ‘to cover’ in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because issues with dates can happen to anyone, regardless of sexual orientation […]
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BDSM is often seen as a deviation from the norm, but who defines and determines what is “normal” anyway? Guest author Cassie did some research.
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Why “Slave” should no longer be used as a BDSM term in public spaces. A guest post from blogger and Twitterer Poly.
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Others’ experiences can be very unsettling for BDSM practitioners. Comparisons are inevitable. Guest author Julia on competitive thinking.
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“It’s the rage that motivates me to stand up for the BDSM community.” Why Lea, web and app developer in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.
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You want to experience BDSM as a Sub, give away control, and be dominated? The following tips for novice subs will help you with that.
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You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
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You can hardly wait to finally try out BDSM. But as the first time gets closer and closer, you realize that there are still many unanswered questions.
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Kink shaming describes the devaluation of a person based on their sexual preferences and is also frequently encountered within the BDSM community.
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Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.
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Those who have ever tried on the shiny material know: Putting on latex is anything but easy. Here you will learn how to tame even the toughest fabric.
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BDSM is sick? No, says blogger Katharina-Sophie and demands: Normalize BDSM! However, some vanillas may see it differently.
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Wishes and BDSM fantasies can sometimes be quite wild. However, author Margaux Navara wishes especially for beginners that these are not fulfilled at first.
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