Normally, we at Deviance write in an explanatory, educational, and sometimes entertaining way. But today, I need something else: a little writing therapy. For those who don’t know me: I’m Marina, and I founded Deviance a few years ago. Explaining is close to our...
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Sometimes you want to show what you've got – and that's exactly what you can do now with your new feature: Public Profiles! From now on, you can create a link to a preview of your Deviance profile and share it outside the platform. Whether it's for curious matches,...
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Nylon is valued for its smooth, elegant texture and the sensual tension it creates on the skin. Fetishists incorporate stockings and tights into role-playing and erotic rituals, often as an expression of sensuality and control.
Trees captivate with their form, texture, and symbolism. For dendrophiles, the connection to nature takes center stage, whether through touch, rituals, or the aesthetic admiration of roots and leaves.
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Normally, we at Deviance write in an explanatory, educational, and sometimes entertaining way. But today, I need something else: a little writing therapy. For those who don’t know me: I’m Marina, and I founded Deviance a few years ago. Explaining is close to our hearts, especially when it comes to…
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