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Lynn

Feminization: Fetish, roleplay, and hidden critique of the patriarchy?

Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

TPE: An intense relationship style that redefines consent

TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Milking: How forced ejaculation works and why it’s so fascinating

Milking is a BDSM practice where sperm is released without orgasm, often pushed beyond the comfortable level…

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

SM-Studio: Room with a view – of the pillory

A glimpse into the SM-Studio: What awaits you between the pillory, St. Andrew’s cross, and playroom – and why pain can mean pure pleasure here.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Sadomasochist – It’s all about the pain

Talking about BDSM, the word “sadomasochist” quickly comes up. But it’s not that simple because it’s a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

FRIES – tastes good even without ketchup and mayo

“FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners.”

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spanko – loves spanks in every aspect

Spanko is derived from “spanking,” meaning “to hit.” So, a Spanko is into spanking in the BDSM context, both as the giver and receiver.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing

“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.

by Lynn | BDSM & Society, Stories

Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride

Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact

A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind

The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

LARP – Role-play with and without BDSM context

LARP stands for “Live Action Role Playing” and is becoming increasingly popular within the BDSM scene.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spankee – whipping boy or girl by passion

A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Objectification – The thing with things

Objectification is a BDSM practice in which a person is viewed as an object for erotic purposes. Learn here what makes it so appealing.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Tunnel play: until the (bitter) end

Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Punish me! The punishment in BDSM

Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The Slut: a new sexual confidence

Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.

by Lynn | BDSM & Society, Stories

Christopher Street Day: A brief history

The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history.