

Lynn
Founded #KinkSisters, a munch for kinky women, and has lived BDSM for longer than she has had a name for it.
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Feminization: Fetish, roleplay, and hidden critique of the patriarchy?
Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?

TPE: An intense relationship style that redefines consent
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.

Milking: How forced ejaculation works and why it’s so fascinating
Milking is a BDSM practice where sperm is released without orgasm, often pushed beyond the comfortable level…

SM-Studio: Room with a view – of the pillory
A glimpse into the SM-Studio: What awaits you between the pillory, St. Andrew’s cross, and playroom – and why pain can mean pure pleasure here.

Sadomasochist – It’s all about the pain
Talking about BDSM, the word “sadomasochist” quickly comes up. But it’s not that simple because it’s a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.

FRIES – tastes good even without ketchup and mayo
“FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners.”

Spanko – loves spanks in every aspect
Spanko is derived from “spanking,” meaning “to hit.” So, a Spanko is into spanking in the BDSM context, both as the giver and receiver.

Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing
“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.

Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride
Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September.

Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact
A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.

Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind
The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…

LARP – Role-play with and without BDSM context
LARP stands for “Live Action Role Playing” and is becoming increasingly popular within the BDSM scene.

Spankee – whipping boy or girl by passion
A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?

Objectification – The thing with things
Objectification is a BDSM practice in which a person is viewed as an object for erotic purposes. Learn here what makes it so appealing.

Tunnel play: until the (bitter) end
Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.

Punish me! The punishment in BDSM
Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.

The Slut: a new sexual confidence
Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.

Christopher Street Day: A brief history
The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history.

What does the acronym D/s actually stand for?
D/s is a BDSM abbreviation for Dominance and Submission, referring to the deliberate and consensual creation of unequal power dynamics.

Fetishist – It’s the love for details
A Fetishist is a lover of an object or material. For example, diapers, latex, or feet serve as fetishes for Fetishists.

Edge play – thrilling experiences near boundaries
In BDSM, edge play refers to practices that involve certain risks to the body or psyche. Games on the edge of the abyss, so to speak.

Pegging: exploring new varieties of penetration
Pegging is a sexual practice in which an active person anally penetrates a passive person using a strap-on, a type of dildo.

Primal Prey – Catch me if you can!
In the BDSM context, Primal Prey is a kind of prey that is hunted, captured, overwhelmed, and conquered by a hunter in an instinctual game.

Instinctive, animalistic, dominant: Primal Predator
A Primal Predator in a BDSM game acts like an animal, following its instincts. Find out what kind of thrill lies behind it here.
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