Talking about BDSM, the word “sadomasochist” quickly comes up. But it’s not that simple because it’s a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
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FRIES – tastes good even without ketchup and mayo
“FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners.”
Spanko – loves spanks in every aspect
Spanko is derived from “spanking,” meaning “to hit.” So, a Spanko is into spanking in the BDSM context, both as the giver and receiver.
Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing
“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.
Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride
Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September.
Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact
A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.
Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind
The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…
LARP – Role-play with and without BDSM context
LARP stands for “Live Action Role Playing” and is becoming increasingly popular within the BDSM scene.
Spankee – whipping boy or girl by passion
A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?
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