Author

Lynn

Masochist: Pleasure in pain and the joy of suffering

Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Brat – nightmare or challenge?

Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Pretty edgy: Edging

Edging is a specific type of orgasm control in which a submissive person is repeatedly pushed to the limit of arousal.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Genital torture for men: Ballbusting / CBT

Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Oral sex royal: queening or facesitting

There is hardly any other practice that allows for the demonstration of power and superiority with maximum pleasure for the dominant person like Queening, also known as Facesitting.

by Lynn | A to Z, Products

Riding crop – For discipline and order

The riding crop is typically intended as an instrument for a brief chastisement to correct misbehavior on the part of the submissive partner.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Under observation: Voyeur

In the literal sense of voyeurism, it is a crime. When we talk about deviance from voyeurs, as usual, we assume consent.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The pleasure of torture: Sadist

Exercising power and (consensual) violence can cause more sexual arousal in a sadist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

by Lynn | A to Z, Products

Jangled nerves: The Wartenberg wheel

In medicine, it’s hardly used anymore for hygienic reasons, but the Wartenberg wheel is experiencing a true renaissance in BDSM circles to deliberately induce pain stimuli.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Collars and cuddles: pet play

Pet play refers to erotic role-playing games where a typically submissive partner takes on the role of an animal. Popular choices include cats, dogs, and ponies.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

A short guide to prostate massage

A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.

by Lynn | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

The pleasure of staging

Not the clothing dominates, but the person. However, staging a session and doling oneself up for it can make you forget about everyday life, says Femdom and author Lynn.