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Get the most out of Deviance: profile, first message, search, Places and Premium.

The Deviance BDSM test: Finally know who you are in the dungeon
Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.

Discover Deviance Places. To discover the best places.
How kinky is your city really? And where do you actually find kinky munches, play spaces, shops, or events when you’re new to the scene or visiting a different city? With Deviance Places, there is now a central map for BDSM and fetish across the German speaking world for the very first time. More than 600 entries are waiting to be discovered.

Using Deviance as a couple: here’s how it works!
Whether it’s a committed or casual relationship, a polycule, or a kinky friendship. Sometimes you want to add a third person. Or a fourth, a fifth. Or two new people at once. Or three. You know how it is. For everyone who feels the same, we have something for you…

Kinky together: The new group feature is here!
Whether it’s a steady play partner crew, a wild meet-up squad, party companions, or a spontaneous session circle: with the group feature, you can now fantasize, tie, or simply think dirty with more than just one person, live and together.

Public Profiles: Your Deviance profile, now ready to share
Sometimes you want to show what you’ve got – and that’s exactly what you can do now with your new feature: Public Profiles! From now on, you can create a link to a preview of your Deviance profile and share it outside the platform. Whether it’s for curious matches, potential play partners, or simply to […]

Deviance as app: Your kinky matches always at your fingertips
Did you know that you can add Deviance as an app to your home screen? Find out how right here!

Safe and sexy: Help make Deviance a safer place
Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we’re making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.

Update: Deviance Search for even more fun! Filter and find!
Finally! The feature you’ve all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.

Sticky fingers? 69 ideas for the first message to your match!
Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.

Deviance Premium: How does the payment work?
You’ve decided on a premium membership? Great! Here’s how to manage your subscription and settings.

What do the buttons under the profiles mean?
Probably you’ve seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?

Here they are: new features for your kinky dating!
Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here’s how.

Your profile text – How to type right!
In online dating, your profile text, along with your pictures, is the first impression of you. Here we explain what you should pay attention to in order to arouse interest in your suggestions.

8 tips for good profile pictures on Deviance
When online dating, your profile picture is crucial. How do I take a good selfie and how can I score points on a BDSM platform?

How to talk kinky online… and how dafuq not
Profile viewed, smiled at the picture, swiped right. And… It’s a match! But what now? Here are our tips on how to turn the chat into a success.
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