“FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners.”
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term “scene” or “community” – also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?
Shibari is a special style of sexual bondage in which people are tied up in complicated patterns and are rather quiet.
The culture of BDSM munches is unique to the scene. But what should one wear there? And how does a beginner start a conversation with people?
The RACK concept cannot be discussed without the SSC philosophy, as it questions the principles of the latter and emphasizes individual responsibility more strongly.
With the rise of the RACK philosophy, the usefulness of SSC has been increasingly questioned, as the principle of safety is considered open to interpretation.
Bondage, in a sexual context, refers to all types of play in which someone is restrained from moving freely in some way.
Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?
" 'to cover' in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because...
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