BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of “white BDSM”, which refers to medical play.
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BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of “white BDSM”, which refers to medical play.
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A drop occurs when someone cannot emotionally handle a BDSM session and negative feelings take hold. Why this happens and how to avoid it.
Needle play is a kink that falls into the realm of edge play and should therefore be enjoyed with caution, but promise maximum pleasure.
Fire Play is one of the particularly hot BDSM practices. Quite literally. Heat, danger, and fear create a very special mix.
Intox Play and Chemsex are currently big topics in the sex-positive community. But can playing under the influence of drugs even be considered BDSM?
For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.
In BDSM, edge play refers to practices that involve certain risks to the body or psyche. Games on the edge of the abyss, so to speak.
Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.
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Although "Dom" is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term "Femdom" emerged.
BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of "white BDSM", which refers to medical play.
Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.
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Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.