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Safety

Safety is one of the absolute prerequisites for making BDSM enjoyable for all participants. It is of great importance that all participants in a session feel safe and secure throughout. This is based on the basic principles of BDSM and should be the foundation of every session. Whether in terms of psychological or physical safety, a general feeling of security must be ensured. This can be achieved through adequate information beforehand. In addition, continuous self-reflection and a careful consideration of the participants are important, as feelings of insecurity can also arise during a game. Deviance assists with contributions on the topic of safety in the BDSM and fetish area.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Safe and sexy: Help make Deviance a safer place

Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we’re making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Kinks

Medical play: where fantasy meets care

BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of “white BDSM”, which refers to medical play.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Say no to drugs! Especially to BDSM and drugs…

BDSM and drugs, both promise a high. But these extremes do not belong together. In this article, you’ll find a concentrated load of raised index fingers.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

What is a drop and why does it happen?

A drop occurs when someone cannot emotionally handle a BDSM session and negative feelings take hold. Why this happens and how to avoid it.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Kinks

Needle play: Painfully beautiful

Needle play is a kink that falls into the realm of edge play and should therefore be enjoyed with caution, but promise maximum pleasure.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Fire play: Literally playing with fire

Fire Play is one of the particularly hot BDSM practices. Quite literally. Heat, danger, and fear create a very special mix.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Intox play: Is it BDSM?

Intox Play and Chemsex are currently big topics in the sex-positive community. But can playing under the influence of drugs even be considered BDSM?

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

BDSM and alcohol: don’t drink and kink!

For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Edge play – thrilling experiences near boundaries

In BDSM, edge play refers to practices that involve certain risks to the body or psyche. Games on the edge of the abyss, so to speak.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Getting off on consent in 5 steps

Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Dom drop: Those who fly high can fall low

Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Breathtakingly beautiful: Breath play

Breath play, or breath control, is one of the most popular but also most dangerous BDSM practices. But what forms and dangers are there?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Sub drop: reaching the lowest point

Despite all precautions, BDSM doesn’t always go smoothly. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a sub drop and what causes it.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

STI and STD Part III: Misconceptions and clichés

There are a lot of misconceptions about sexually transmitted infections. It’s time to clear up a few, because the best prevention is still education.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Like a boss – 6 approaches to handle a drop

If the mood shifts during BDSM, it can lead to a drop. We’ll show you 6 possible approaches on how to deal with this situation.

by Deviance | A to Z, Basics

How to get covered properly

” ‘to cover’ in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because issues with dates can happen to anyone, regardless of sexual orientation […]