Dating

Dating.

From your profile and first message to the first date: how meeting people works when you’re into kink.

Call me! Six tips for successful video dating
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Call me! Six tips for successful video dating

Video dating is the perfect way to test the chemistry without wasting much time. Here are six sexy tips for spontaneous dates behind the screen.

And match! But how to go on? Online dating tipps from an expert
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And match! But how to go on? Online dating tipps from an expert

Who hasn’t been there? You have an interesting match, but the spark for the first message just isn’t there. A topic that the podcast “Die Kunst der Unvernunft” has also explored.

Help, the person I like is not kinky!
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Help, the person I like is not kinky!

Can BDSM only work with kinksters? What if I like someone who isn’t kinky? Kitteh spills the beans.

Rendezvous? Au revoir!
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Rendezvous? Au revoir!

Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.

How to find out if someone is into BDSM
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How to find out if someone is into BDSM

Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?

How to create a kinky dating profile
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How to create a kinky dating profile

Indeed, dating profiles offer the opportunity to reveal more about one’s personality than offline interactions. Here are our tips.

13 red flags for dating and relationships
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13 red flags for dating and relationships

Red flags are warning signs to watch out for in relationships and dating. Here are 13 red flags to pay special attention to in BDSM.

16 questions to ask your date
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16 questions to ask your date

Conversations are sometimes not an easy matter, especially on BDSM dates. Here are 16 questions that will put your date through their paces.

Talking about preferences: “And what are you into?”
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Talking about preferences: “And what are you into?”

Talking about preferences, inclinations, and fetishes can be daunting, feel unfamiliar, and evoke feelings of shame. Here are seven ideas.

8 points for your safety when dating
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8 points for your safety when dating

When two or more people engage in BDSM, the issue of personal safety should be anything but neglected.

The best and safest locations for your first date
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The best and safest locations for your first date

Dating location: The first date in BDSM always brings some difficulties with it. One of them is choosing a suitable location.