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Going through a breakup is terrible. When a partnership ends, that’s bad enough. But what if BDSM was also involved?
“Deviance aims to help BDSM-interested individuals who hide their desires from each other to connect. But what are the experiences?”
A breakup is never pleasant, whether BDSM is involved or not. But how do I best end things when it’s no longer working out? A brief guide.
Indeed, dating profiles offer the opportunity to reveal more about one’s personality than offline interactions. Here are our tips.
How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says X blogger NikSput in this interview.
You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
Like many other terms in the BDSM realm, “Brat-Tamer” can be taken literally. It’s a challenging role.
Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.
Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.
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Finally! The feature you've all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.
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Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.