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Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.

Since 2004, the bondage and fetish fair BoundCon has been held in Munich. For its twentieth anniversary, we at Deviance were also present and here share our impressions with you.

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Nipple clamps promise a special kind of pleasure pain. But beware! Not all have the same effect and evoke the same sensations.

Probably you've seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?

Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here's how.

Talking about BDSM, the word "sadomasochist" quickly comes up. But it's not that simple because it's a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.

Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.

A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?

"FRIES is one of many consent models in BDSM, alongside SSC and RACK, and is particularly a good guideline for beginners."