The Deviance BDSM test: Finally know who you are in the dungeon
Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.
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Dominance
Dominance is a personality trait of dominant and ruling individuals. Since playing with a power exchange is an important part of BDSM, dominant people are widespread in the scene. For dominant personalities, "Dom" is often the most common choice in the category of active roles. A Dom exercises control in a play or permanent relationship. This control can be physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, or a combination of several aspects. "Dominant" is actually gender-neutral, but the abbreviation is often understood to refer to a man, while the terms "Domme" and "Femdom" have been established for female Doms. Here at Deviance, you'll find everything about dominance in the context of BDSM.
TPE: An intense relationship style that redefines consent
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.
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Financial Domination: Just play money or playing with money?
Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.
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Feminizer in BDSM: A journey into roleplay and degradation
Feminizer in BDSM: A transformative role that plays with power, degradation, and feminization. Explore the facets of this kink.
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Findom: When you get more for your money than expected
Discover what it means to be a Findom: The role of financial dominance and how it is applied in relationships and dynamics.
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When people become furniture: Insights into the world of the furniture fetish
Forniphilia combines body art with erotic objectification. Whether practiced alone or with partners, the transformation into a piece of furniture creates a unique blend of control and aesthetics.
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Femdom – Under female leadership
Although “Dom” is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term “Femdom” emerged.
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What does a Dominatrix or Dominus do?
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
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Keyholder – Playing the key role
Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.
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The term Hotwife or Cuckoldress
Often the Hotwife or Cuckoldress is sexually dominant over her partner and her outward play serves to reinforce her dominance.
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Dom: short for dominant
Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.
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Playing on a thin edge: knife play
Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
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Punish me! The punishment in BDSM
Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.
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Degrader – Looking down
Degraders are dominant people who enjoy degradation and humiliation. BDSM is about the erotic consensual humiliation of a bottom.
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What does the acronym D/s actually stand for?
D/s is a BDSM abbreviation for Dominance and Submission, referring to the deliberate and consensual creation of unequal power dynamics.
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Topping from the bottom: your wish is my command
When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?
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Rape play – A sensitive fantasy
What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.
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Dom drop: Those who fly high can fall low
Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.
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The blackmailing game
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
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Power dynamic – the heart of each BDSM activity
Power dynamic is one of the most important concepts, the central element of any BDSM relationship or activity, distinguishing it from fetishes and kinks.
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Ruined orgasm – Hands off!
A ruined orgasm is a practice where a person experiences climax without satisfaction. Find out here how to ruin an orgasm.
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Tease and denial – Finding pleasure in frustration
Whether as a heightened state of sexual arousal or as a means of erotic torment and humiliation, tease and denial can be used in diverse ways, even outside of the BDSM context.
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Chastity for beginners: silicone cock lock
The silicone cock lock is a relative of the chastity cage and chastity belt, but much better suited for beginners interested in chastity.
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FLR – When the woman is the boss at home
FLR is the abbreviation for “Female Led Relationship,” a type of relationship in which, by agreement, a dominant woman is in charge.
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