Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.
Financial Domination: Just play money or playing with money?
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Finsub – quite an expensive thrill
Finsub, money pig, money slave: Find out here why some people get turned on by financially submitting and what facets this role has.
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Dirty Talk – Words that hit the spot
Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk – and why they aren’t.
What does a Dominatrix or Dominus do?
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
From Munich with love…
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Who or what is actually the BDSM community?
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term “scene” or “community” – also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?
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Going through a breakup is terrible. When a partnership ends, that’s bad enough. But what if BDSM was also involved?
Play with yourself: Ideas for kinky masturbation
For BDSM, you need at least two people, right? Can masturbation even be kinky? You bet! Here are a few ideas.
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