BDSM experiences

If you’ve ever browsed through BDSM forums or erotic bios on social media, you may have come across the term SPH. It stands for Small Penis Humiliation, a kink that centers around the intentional humiliation of a man or penis-owning person for having a (supposedly) small penis. While it may…

Normally, we at Deviance write in an explanatory, educational, and sometimes entertaining way. But today, I need something else: a little writing therapy. For those who don’t know me: I’m Marina, and I founded Deviance a few years ago. Explaining is close to our hearts, especially when it comes to…

Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?

Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?

A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.

Tying doesn't always require two. Even tying yourself up alone can unlock new heights of pleasure – as long as you keep some safety aspects in mind.

AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.

TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.

Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.

Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.