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Ready, set, smack: Testing the wooden paddle
Ho Ho Ho, feels like a smackdown! Deviance has tested this wooden paddle for you. Perfect for hot sessions on frosty days? Read on to find out!
Dirty Talk – Words that hit the spot
Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk – and why they aren’t.
Femdom – Under female leadership
Although “Dom” is gender-neutral, the term is still often associated with male dominance, which is why the specific term “Femdom” emerged.
Medical play: where fantasy meets care
BDSM is always black and red? Not at all, many kinksters love to play in the realm of “white BDSM”, which refers to medical play.
The pleasure of nipple clamps
Nipple clamps promise a special kind of pleasure pain. But beware! Not all have the same effect and evoke the same sensations.
Sadomasochist – It’s all about the pain
Talking about BDSM, the word “sadomasochist” quickly comes up. But it’s not that simple because it’s a role that is very body-oriented and a bit more narrowly defined.
Sounding – The Inn’s and Out’s
Sounding is the penetration and stretching of the urethra. Find out here what the fascination of this BDSM practice is, how it works and what to look out for.
What does a Dominatrix or Dominus do?
A term that also enjoys a certain level of recognition outside the BDSM scene. But what exactly does the job of a Dominatrix entail and what does a visit involve?
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Courage for BDSM: How to master your coming out with ease
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AB/DL: A fascinating kink and its aspects
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TPE: An intense relationship style that redefines consent
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Of ropes and radiance: A sensual look at Obscene 2025
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Financial Domination: Just play money or playing with money?
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