Who or what is actually the BDSM community?
When you start exploring BDSM, you often hear the term “scene” or “community” – also here on Deviance. But who are all these people, and when do you become part of it?
Read more →
Tag
Terms
The BDSM scene comes with its own language, which is why there are countless BDSM terms. Those who don't understand terms like Little, Sissy, or Cuckold can find help here at Deviance. In the BDSM glossary, the most important linguistic pillars of the BDSM world are summarized and explained. Whether it's role, websites, or anything else, Deviance provides comprehensive information on various aspects of the fetish world. Since one can quickly lose track of the specialized terminology in the fetish domain, the collection of BDSM terms is not only for fetish beginners. Experienced followers of the scene can also refresh their knowledge here. Read and learn; there's something for everyone here.
So… how to get to a BDSM munch?
The culture of BDSM munches is unique to the scene. But what should one wear there? And how does a beginner start a conversation with people?
Read more →
Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind
The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…
Read more →
Fetish by colors: the Hanky Code
The Hanky Code is unfamiliar to many now, but it used to be a widely used system in the LGBTQ+ scene. Find out here what the colors mean.
Read more →
Topping from the bottom: your wish is my command
When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?
Read more →
Session: it’s time to play!
What exactly is a session? We explain what is meant by the term in BDSM and whether you have to schedule being “kinky.”
Read more →
I just want to: play!
Why is the term “play” or “play partner” often used in BDSM? While it sounds better than “doing BDSM”, not everyone likes the term.
Read more →
What the famous safeword is all about
One of the terms that enjoys great popularity outside the BDSM world is the safeword, which indicates the termination of a session.
Read more →