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6 questions to ask before playing

You’re not in top shape every day. Physically and psychologically. 6 questions that will help make your BDSM session a successful experience.

In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?

When online dating, your profile picture is crucial. How do I take a good selfie and how can I score points on a BDSM platform?

Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.

CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.

How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says X blogger NikSput in this interview.

Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.

Profile viewed, smiled at the picture, swiped right. And… It’s a match! But what now? Here are our tips on how to turn the chat into a success.

What exactly is a session? We explain what is meant by the term in BDSM and whether you have to schedule being “kinky.”