" 'to cover' in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because...
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.
CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.
Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.
What exactly is a session? We explain what is meant by the term in BDSM and whether you have to schedule being “kinky.”
A ball gag is the best-known form of gag and usually consists of a rubber ball and a strap for attachment. But what should you pay attention to?
Why is the term “play” or “play partner” often used in BDSM? While it sounds better than “doing BDSM”, not everyone likes the term.
Power dynamic is one of the most important concepts, the central element of any BDSM relationship or activity, distinguishing it from fetishes and kinks.
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What exactly is a testicle pillory? A testicle pillory, also called a “humbler,” is a two-part, curved arch. These are mostly made of wood. Both parts can be screwed together and thereby clamp the testicles. This is possible in different intensities. Everything is possible, from the light presentation of the…
Discover kinky Berlin from a different angle: why is the German capital considered the capital of kink? Berlin Guide Jeff takes you back to the 19th century...
Whether it’s a committed or casual relationship, a polycule, or a kinky friendship. Sometimes you want to add a third person. Or a fourth, a fifth. Or two new people at once. Or three. You know how it is. For everyone who feels the same, we have something for you…
How suitable are a men’s skirt and lace pants for everyday wear? For the fourth Advent, we tested one model over three days for comfort, style, and event suitability.
A Body Harness combines style, comfort and desire. We tested this sexy model at the Naughty Christmas Market, so read on.
The jaw works, the saliva flows, and suddenly everything becomes quieter than expected. Here is part two of the 2025 hard test by Orion and Deviance.
The first round of the big 2025 Advent campaign with Orion. The pinwheel delivers intense sensations that range from gentle tingles to deep pulls. Especially on sensitive areas, it shows its full effect and makes every session more exciting.
Last Christmas... we already did it and now the continuation with Orion follows. This year we are sliding back into advent with a spark and kicking things off with the exclusively sold out Magic Shiver.
Who would have thought that Frankfurt of all places would take the lead when it comes to BDSM? Between the skyline and the banks of the Main, the appetite for kink seems especially strong. Our analysis of the Kink Report shows that the capital of banking even leaves Berlin behind…
BDSM is not violence. The guest article by KAPA clearly explains why consent is the crucial difference and why education is so important.