Pegging is a sexual practice in which an active person anally penetrates a passive person using a strap-on, a type of dildo.
Pegging: exploring new varieties of penetration
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Equipment
Cotton rope: The most popular bondage rope
In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.
Noble pleasures: Exploring the prince’s wand
The prince’s qand is a subtype of so-called urethral plugs and is used for the sexual stimulation of the urethra in people with a penis.
Candles in BDSM: things to consider
Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.
How to find the right strapon
Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.
Ball gag: The most popular way to gag
A ball gag is the best-known form of gag and usually consists of a rubber ball and a strap for attachment. But what should you pay attention to?
Strapon – Putting the ‘fun’ in functional
A strapon, also known as a “strap-on dildo,” allows individuals without a penis to penetrate others in the desired manner.
Deep insights: labia spreader
Labia spreaders are inserted into the vagina so that the vulva and clitoris are exposed and offer a variety of interesting play options.
Plug in and find out
The butt plug is a popular toy not only in BDSM. We explain what the toy is all about and how to use it.
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