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A ball gag is the best-known form of gag and usually consists of a rubber ball and a strap for attachment. But what should you pay attention to?
Slippery little helper: Lube
Oil-based lube, except for silicone oil, is not recommended as it can damage toys and condoms. It’s better to opt for water-based options.
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