The best kinky events in November – presented by Berlin Kink Calendar
Berlin invites you. In November, too.
November doesn’t have a great reputation. Grey, wet, dark by half past four, and the sofa calls louder than any date. Yet it’s the perfect month for everything that happens better in dim light anyway. Berlin makes it easy for you: with club nights that stretch well into the next day, a party where your clothes stay at the cloakroom, with rope, warm oil and even a Friday the 13th. If you already leafed through Berlin’s kinky calendar with us in October, you know how this works. For everyone else: every month, we present the carefully curated Berlin Kink Calendar right here.
The Berlin Kink Calendar, published by BERLINABLE, is a curated guide to kink, fetish and queer culture. The Berlinable team doesn’t just collect dates, it looks closely: what kind of space does an event create? Which dress codes and rules apply there? Who is it meant for? And how is consent practiced?
From parties to workshops for absolute beginners to rope speed dating, pretty much everything is covered again this month. Because an event is never just an event. It can be a first step into a new world. A place to learn. A place where you’re seen. Or a room where people come to understand something they had no words for until now.
Not simply more listings. More orientation. More context. More joy.
To learn more, head to BerlinKinkCalendar.com.
SYMBIOTIKKA AT KITKATCLUB
WEDNESDAY 04. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
Every Wednesday at the KitKatClub: Symbiotikka is one of Berlin’s most successful sex-positive club series. LGBTQIA+ friendly, and consent counts for more than spectacle here.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/symbiotikka-kitkatclub/
FOUR PLAY
FRIDAY 06. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
Once a month, the KitKatClub hosts Four Play, exactly the kind of party Berlin was made for: inclusive, consent first, and closer to a festival than a club night.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/four-play/
DRINK AND DRAW – FETISH SKETCHING
SATURDAY 07. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
Fetish sketching at Funkhaus: Drink and Draw Berlin invites you to a workshop with Felix Scheinberger. The model is someone from Berlin’s fetish scene.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/fetish-sketching-felix-scheinberger-drink-and-draw-berlin/
SADO BAR X BURNER EMBASSY BERLIN FUNDRAISER VOL. II
TUESDAY 10. NOVEMBER | COMMUNITY & SOCIAL
For the second time, SADO BAR takes over the Burner Embassy Berlin’s salon for a fundraiser night. Entry is on a sliding scale from ten to forty euros, so the door stays open to everyone.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/sado-bar-x-burner-embassy-berlin-fundraiser-vol-ii/
SEX YOGA
WEDNESDAY 11. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
Juliane Willerbach leads a morning of yoga, breathwork and somatic mindfulness at IKSK. Pelvic floor awareness and tantric perspectives frame an exploration of sensuality that focuses entirely on your own body.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/sex-yoga/
RE:CODED FRIDAY THE 13TH
FRIDAY 13. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
Re:coded brings Friday the 13th to PKH Warehouse: techno and house on separate floors, plus an XXL darkroom. A fetish night for adult men only, with photo ID at the door, and phones stay put away.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/recoded-friday-the-13th/
LIBIDOH
SATURDAY 14. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
LIBIDOH returns to ROSA with ten DJs, trance and techno, plus a play space where consent sets the frame. Only an enthusiastic yes is a yes, and the dress code is part of the experience.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/libidoh/
TURNING POINT – SURPRISING TRANSITIONS
SATURDAY 14. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
Mie Neko and Schlavendel teach a full day of advanced shibari transitions. Turning Point is dedicated to the changes between suspension figures, from the perspective of riggers as well as rope models. Previous experience is required.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/turning-point-surprising-transitions/
BONDAGE & BODY HANDLING FOR ABSOLUTE BEGINNERS
SUNDAY 15. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
At IKSK, Noemi teaches bondage to absolute beginners: the basics of tying, leading and being led, and switching roles. No experience or partner needed.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/bondage-body-handling-for-absolute-beginners/
NACKTFLEISCH: BERLIN QUEER NAKED PARTY
SUNDAY 15. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
Clothes stay at the cloakroom, and inside everyone is equal. Techno and tech house at KitKat, large play areas, a pool and a harm reduction stand. Butch queen Arie Oshri hosts the night in full drag.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/nacktfleisch-berlin-queer-naked-party/
LIQUID LOVE – EXPERIENCE
WEDNESDAY 18. NOVEMBER | COMMUNITY & SOCIAL
At WAMOS, Liquid Love begins with consent and communication, and only then moves on to guided touch, warm oil and darkness. A slow evening of sensual connection, without any expectation of sexual play.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/liquid-love-experience/
VERBOTEN SOCIAL: BERLIN
THURSDAY 19. NOVEMBER | COMMUNITY & SOCIAL
Verboten Social moves into a new home in Mitte. It’s Klub Verboten’s way in for the curious: meet members, ask questions, get vetted. Free entry with RSVP.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/verboten-social-berlin/
EROTIC JAM
SATURDAY 21. NOVEMBER | INTIMACY & CONNECTION
Movement, dance and conscious kink meet at SOMA HOUSE. The guided session, free of alcohol and drugs, begins with consent exercises and then makes room for creative intimacy, sensual expression and play.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/erotic-jam/
PORN BY PRNCPTL
SATURDAY 21. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
Pornceptual brings PORN to ROSA. Techno and house, a door where queer guests come first, and a dress code that ranges from club kid to fully naked.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/porn-by-prncptl/
LUCID MASTURBATION – THE TRUTH BEHIND THE PEAK
FRIDAY 27. NOVEMBER – SUNDAY 29. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
Mareen and Juliette lead a weekend at IKSK that explores fantasies through somatic exercises and David Schnarch’s method of lucid masturbation. The focus is on exploring yourself, with clear boundaries and no erotic partner play.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/lucid-masturbation-the-truth-behind-the-peak/
PIEPSHOW – BIRTHDAYPIEP
FRIDAY 27. NOVEMBER | PARTIES & CLUB NIGHTS
For BirthdayPiep, the KitKatClub fills up with fourteen hours of queer techno on five floors with thirteen DJs. Shibari, drag and comedy meet a colourful crowd, and the play spaces and pool are open the whole time.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/piepshow-birthdaypiep/
ROPE SPEED DATING & UNPARTNERED JAM
SATURDAY 28. NOVEMBER | WORKSHOPS & LEARNING
At Daruma’s Rope Speed Dating, you’ll find rope partners and friends: icebreakers, short tying rounds and partner swaps, followed by an open jam for everyone without a regular partner. Requirement: you know how to tie a single column tie.
More information: https://www.berlinkinkcalendar.com/rope-speed-dating-unpartnered-jam/