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Row, row, row the boat: paddle

What is a paddle anyway, and what is it used for in BDSM? We’ll explain what’s behind this popular impact tool.

When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?

What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.

In BDSM, edge play refers to practices that involve certain risks to the body or psyche. Games on the edge of the abyss, so to speak.

What is a blindfold and why is it so popular in BDSM? We explain to you the attraction behind the sensory robbery.

Consent or consensus is a word that often comes up in BDSM. But how do you establish it? How do you negotiate consent? Here are five points.

Pegging is a sexual practice in which an active person anally penetrates a passive person using a strap-on, a type of dildo.

Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.

In the BDSM context, Primal Prey is a kind of prey that is hunted, captured, overwhelmed, and conquered by a hunter in an instinctual game.