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It doesn’t always have to be techno: What the first “Bedrooms” in Cologne was like

Deviance stress test out of home: We put Bedrooms Cologne to the test. Kinky vibes, Hip Hop instead of techno, and an exclusive deal for you.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

The big advent campaign from Deviance and Orion is back and this time it gets even hotter…

Last Christmas… we already did it and now the continuation with Orion follows. This year we are sliding back into advent with a spark and kicking things off with the exclusively sold out Magic Shiver.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Lightning strikes from Elbe to Danube

Who would have thought that Frankfurt of all places would take the lead when it comes to BDSM? Between the skyline and the banks of the Main, the appetite for kink seems especially strong. Our analysis of the Kink Report shows that the capital of banking even leaves Berlin behind when it comes to dirty business.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Kink Aware Professionals and where to find them

Kink Aware Professionals: They are more than open-minded therapists. They understand your world and offer help without judgment. And they’re easy to find! Lern more about our partnership with KAPA.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Who let the dogs out? The Kink Report 2025 is here!

Why is Tuesday the hottest day of the week? And why is it really the Subs who dominate? The first Deviance Kink Report reveals it. An anonymous analysis of over 22,000 profiles with surprising results. Take a look!

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Courage for BDSM: How to master your coming out with ease

A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.

by Ginger San | Kinky Life, Tips

Of ropes and radiance: A sensual look at Obscene 2025

Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Call me! Six tips for successful video dating

Video dating is the perfect way to test the chemistry without wasting much time. Here are six sexy tips for spontaneous dates behind the screen.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Public Profiles: Your Deviance profile, now ready to share

Sometimes you want to show what you’ve got – and that’s exactly what you can do now with your new feature: Public Profiles! From now on, you can create a link to a preview of your Deviance profile and share it outside the platform. Whether it’s for curious matches, potential play partners, or simply to […]

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

And match! But how to go on? Online dating tipps from an expert

Who hasn’t been there? You have an interesting match, but the spark for the first message just isn’t there. A topic that the podcast “Die Kunst der Unvernunft” has also explored.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Deviance as app: Your kinky matches always at your fingertips

Did you know that you can add Deviance as an app to your home screen? Find out how right here!

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

The big Christmas giveaway from Orion and Deviance: Make your holiday season extra kinky

Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the cold season! 🎁🔥 Here’s how it works: To […]

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Talk dirty to me: Dirty talk ideas beyond cum cannons and juicy slits

Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone…

by Ginger San | Kinky Life, Tips

Fetish fair 101: navigating your kink experience

A fetish fair offers much more than just shopping. No matter which one you attend, you’ll be stepping into a world full of diversity. Find out here how to make the most of your visit.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Safe and sexy: Help make Deviance a safer place

Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we’re making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Update: Deviance Search for even more fun! Filter and find!

Finally! The feature you’ve all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Sticky fingers? 69 ideas for the first message to your match!

Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Deviance Premium: How does the payment work?

You’ve decided on a premium membership? Great! Here’s how to manage your subscription and settings.

by Deviance | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

What do the buttons under the profiles mean?

Probably you’ve seen it since the introduction of the premium features: Instead of two buttons, there are now five buttons under each profile suggestion. But what do they mean?

by Marina | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

Here they are: new features for your kinky dating!

Finally: The Deviance Premium features are here! Four new functions to increase your chances of exciting kinky encounters. Here’s how.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Say no to drugs! Especially to BDSM and drugs…

BDSM and drugs, both promise a high. But these extremes do not belong together. In this article, you’ll find a concentrated load of raised index fingers.