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Mental health

Mental health is crucial for well-being in BDSM practices. On Deviance, learn how to protect and enhance your mental health. Our comprehensive resources offer valuable information on integrating mental health into your BDSM experiences, including stress management, self-care, and communication. Discover how to maintain a healthy balance between intense experiences and emotional well-being, and find support when needed.

by Marina | Interviews, Stories

Kink, Clinic, Clarity: Why the KAPA congress is more than just an event

At the end of May 2026, the first congress of the Kink Aware Professional Association will take place in Vienna. A congress for kink? What is it about and why is it needed? Martin Gostentschnig provides answers.

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

BDSM is not violence. But the prejudices hurt.

BDSM is not violence. The guest article by KAPA clearly explains why consent is the crucial difference and why education is so important.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

Kink Aware Professionals and where to find them

Kink Aware Professionals: They are more than open-minded therapists. They understand your world and offer help without judgment. And they’re easy to find! Lern more about our partnership with KAPA.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Play with yourself: Ideas for kinky masturbation

For BDSM, you need at least two people, right? Can masturbation even be kinky? You bet! Here are a few ideas.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

What is a drop and why does it happen?

A drop occurs when someone cannot emotionally handle a BDSM session and negative feelings take hold. Why this happens and how to avoid it.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Rendezvous? Au revoir!

Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Rape play – A sensitive fantasy

What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Dom drop: Those who fly high can fall low

Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Sub drop: reaching the lowest point

Despite all precautions, BDSM doesn’t always go smoothly. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a sub drop and what causes it.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Like a boss – 6 approaches to handle a drop

If the mood shifts during BDSM, it can lead to a drop. We’ll show you 6 possible approaches on how to deal with this situation.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

6 questions to ask before playing

You’re not in top shape every day. Physically and psychologically. 6 questions that will help make your BDSM session a successful experience.

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

Diagnosis: Sadomasochism. Do i have a disorder?

BDSM is often seen as a deviation from the norm, but who defines and determines what is “normal” anyway? Guest author Cassie did some research.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Aftercare – What it comes down to

Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support of the players immediately after a BDSM session by talking about and reflecting on the experience.