Whether it’s a committed relationship, a casual play relationship, a polycule, or a kinky friendship. Sometimes you want to add a third person. Or a fourth, a fifth. Or two new people at once. Or three. You know how it goes. For everyone who feels the same, we have something for you: the Deviance group feature.
Groups? Really? And hasn’t that been around for a while already, some of you might be thinking. True. But today we want to explain what it was actually developed for and how you can use it as a couple, or in whatever constellation you find yourselves, to deliberately look for additional play partners.
Bye bye shared profile!
When a couple wants to invite someone else in, the most obvious idea often seems to be creating a shared profile. One photo together, a text written from a we perspective, done. But it’s not that simple. Which role do you choose if two or more people have different preferences? What age fits if there isn’t just one person? Which interests are shared, which are individual, and how is all of that supposed to match with another person? At the latest when filling everything out, it becomes clear that a single profile can really only represent one person properly, but not a duo. Or a trio. Or a quartet.
How to use groups on Deviance
This is exactly where the group feature comes in. It is not meant to replace individual profiles, but to extend them. A way to keep individual identities while still showing up, searching, and communicating together.
The principle is deliberately simple. Each person first creates their own profile, just as with solo use. These profiles can then join together as a couple or a group. If one of you comes across an interesting profile in the daily suggestions or in search, it can be matched and invited directly into the group. From that moment on, you chat together. Three people, four, five, or more. There is no fixed upper limit.
And not only that. You can also be found by single profiles or by other couples, groups, and more. Or you can actively filter for singles, couples, or groups yourself and decide who you want to connect with.
Inviting people outside of Deviance
By the way, you can not only invite people who are already active on Deviance. People from outside the platform can also be invited very easily by email. With a short description of what your group is about, this creates a shared space for exchange, coordination, and chats.
You can find the groups in the app at the top left in the menu or – if you’re already in a group – at the bottom right in your chats.
