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13 red flags for dating and relationships

Red flags are warning signs to watch out for in relationships and dating. Here are 13 red flags to pay special attention to in BDSM.

The pleasure is particularly stimulating when anal beads are pulled out just before or during orgasm. Find out more here!

When people talk about red flags in BDSM, they usually want to warn submissive people. But not all subs are lovely angels.

Experiencing power and violence can cause more sexual arousal for a masochist than the actual performance of sexual acts.

Controlling your orgasm is a bit like baking frozen pizza. At some point you just have the feeling when the time is right.

Oil-based lube, except for silicone oil, is not recommended as it can damage toys and condoms. It’s better to opt for water-based options.

Entering the BDSM scene, both offline and online, you often come across the term ‘Wannabe Dom’. What does it mean?

Hardly any type is as controversial in the BDSM area as the role of the brat. Some are annoyed by the rebelliousness, others love the challenge.

In BDSM, orgasm control refers to the prohibition, intentional delay, or enforcement of a partner’s orgasm.