The D in BDSM stands for “Discipline,” among other things, and similar to Dominance, it involves following rules. But where is the difference?
Discipline – The first D in BDSM
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Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance
Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?
Chastity. Or: “a never cuming story”
In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.
“You are my Toy!”
A human Toy comes into play when the Top wishes it. The most important task is to satisfy the person playing the Top.
Jute rope – noisy but soft
Due to its unique, supple, and soft handling, jute rope has become a popular choice for bondage rope in recent years.
Hang in there! Bunny and Rope Bottom
Yes, theres is a name for the passive part in rope bondage, who consensually and with attention to safety risks allows themselves to be tied up by another person.
Rough and tough: hemp rope
Since hemp rope maintains its length under tension, it is an ideal rope for the Japanese bondage art shibari, but for this reason, it is more suitable for experienced bondage fans.
Pretty captivating: Rigger or Rope Top
“Rigger” refers to a profession in the maritime industry. The alternative name Rope Top is made up to show also the status of playing “on top” within a BDSM activity.
Uniform fetish: Attention!
The uniform fetish is often associated with negative examples like SS uniforms, yet the range of this fetish is more diverse than one might think.
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