Diaper fetish, Adult Baby, Diaper Lover: Primarily, it’s about expressing childlike aspects that everyone more or less carries within them.
Diaper fetish – Acting little in big pants
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Kinks
Tease and denial – Finding pleasure in frustration
Whether as a heightened state of sexual arousal or as a means of erotic torment and humiliation, tease and denial can be used in diverse ways, even outside of the BDSM context.
Rimming? Kiss my ass!
The exterior and interior of the anus have numerous nerve endings that respond particularly sensitively to stimulation and should definitely be included in lovemaking.
FLR – When the woman is the boss at home
FLR is the abbreviation for “Female Led Relationship,” a type of relationship in which, by agreement, a dominant woman is in charge.
Tight, tighter, binding
More than just bondage: Binding involves temporarily restricting blood flow to certain body parts. It’s not entirely without risk.
Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance
Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?
Chastity. Or: “a never cuming story”
In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.
Latex fetish – shine bright like a…
Latex or rubber is one of the most common material fetishes. Additionally, this shiny material is often encountered as a sex toy or dress code at BDSM parties.
Golden shower: Just let it out
Golden shower is the term for urine play. Here you can find out what the attraction is, what to watch out for and what you should avoid.
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