In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.

In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.
When you start to explore BDSM and the BDSM community, one of the terms you come across is ‘queer’. But what does that actually mean?
A Primal Predator in a BDSM game acts like an animal, following its instincts. Find out what kind of thrill lies behind it here.
The prince’s qand is a subtype of so-called urethral plugs and is used for the sexual stimulation of the urethra in people with a penis.
" 'to cover' in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because...
In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?
Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.
CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.
Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.
Share the article
Whether it’s a steady play partner crew, a wild meet-up squad, party companions, or a spontaneous session circle: with the group feature, you can now fantasize, tie, or simply think dirty with more than just one person, live and together.
Most people have probably heard of the legendary KitKat Club in Berlin – a place where kink, art, and body culture meet, standing as a symbol of radical freedom. That’s exactly how photographer and filmmaker Sahin Dellemann describes it. And it’s there, on August 9, that Dellemann will present his…
If you’ve ever browsed through BDSM forums or erotic bios on social media, you may have come across the term SPH. It stands for Small Penis Humiliation, a kink that centers around the intentional humiliation of a man or penis-owning person for having a (supposedly) small penis. While it may…
Normally, we at Deviance write in an explanatory, educational, and sometimes entertaining way. But today, I need something else: a little writing therapy. For those who don’t know me: I’m Marina, and I founded Deviance a few years ago. Explaining is close to our hearts, especially when it comes to…
Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?
Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?
A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.
Tying doesn't always require two. Even tying yourself up alone can unlock new heights of pleasure – as long as you keep some safety aspects in mind.
AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.