Glitter canes, kinky furniture, streaming trends, and new highlights of the fetish scene: our impressions from the kinky Venus 2025!
Venus 2025: Here’s what we found for you
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here&now at the KitKat Club: Photography as lived performance
On August 9 2025, the KitKat Club opened its doors for the vernissage here&now by Sahin Dellemann and transformed into a space where projections, prints, fabrics, skin, sound, and movement collided. In our preview coverage, we had already announced that this would...
A love letter to the sense of shame
When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it.
Faster, further, better… about competition in BDSM
Others’ experiences can be very unsettling for BDSM practitioners. Comparisons are inevitable. Guest author Julia on competitive thinking.
Constant dripping brings the moan: wax play
Candlelight has always been associated with romance and the bedroom. So, it was only a matter of time before people started playing with wax.
Attention, this is a control! About orgasms and sensitivity
Controlling your orgasm is a bit like baking frozen pizza. At some point you just have the feeling when the time is right.
The inner struggle
Can I find this hot? Am I allowed to enjoy it? Blogger Katharina-Sophie from Sub-Space on inner struggle and societal chains.
Why hands are the best toys
BDSM author Margaux Navara regularly presents new toys. Among them, there’s one that almost everyone already has and doesn’t even cost anything: our hands.
The last fantasy
There is BDSM with beatings, restraints, or pain. And there is submission. As an author, Margaux Navara is allowed to fantasize, she says. And has provided Deviance with one of these fantasies.
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