Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?
Playparty – A kinky playground for exploration
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You’re not a prick for using PRICK!
PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.
Finsub – quite an expensive thrill
Finsub, money pig, money slave: Find out here why some people get turned on by financially submitting and what facets this role has.
Findom: When you get more for your money than expected
Discover what it means to be a Findom: The role of financial dominance and how it is applied in relationships and dynamics.
SM-Studio: Room with a view – of the pillory
A glimpse into the SM-Studio: What awaits you between the pillory, St. Andrew’s cross, and playroom – and why pain can mean pure pleasure here.
Talk dirty to me: Dirty talk ideas beyond cum cannons and juicy slits
Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone…
Dirty Talk – Words that hit the spot
Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk – and why they aren’t.
Play with yourself: Ideas for kinky masturbation
For BDSM, you need at least two people, right? Can masturbation even be kinky? You bet! Here are a few ideas.
Electro Play – BDSM with electricity
Electrostimulation has been used in medicine since the 1950s. However, electro play, which involves stimulation with electricity, is also popular in BDSM.
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Playparty – A kinky playground for exploration
Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?