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Play in BDSM can take many forms, from intense role play to creative scenarios with different paraphernalia. At Deviance, we show you how to explore new dimensions of your fantasies through play. Discover how you can create exciting games and scenarios safely and consensually. Our platform offers you tips, ideas and instructions to make BDSM play an unforgettable experience.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

Playparty – A kinky playground for exploration

Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

You’re not a prick for using PRICK!

PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Finsub – quite an expensive thrill

Finsub, money pig, money slave: Find out here why some people get turned on by financially submitting and what facets this role has.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Findom: When you get more for your money than expected

Discover what it means to be a Findom: The role of financial dominance and how it is applied in relationships and dynamics.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

SM-Studio: Room with a view – of the pillory

A glimpse into the SM-Studio: What awaits you between the pillory, St. Andrew’s cross, and playroom – and why pain can mean pure pleasure here.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

Talk dirty to me: Dirty talk ideas beyond cum cannons and juicy slits

Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone…

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Dirty Talk – Words that hit the spot

Words are a powerful weapon once you overcome the hurdle of starting to speak. Why people are into dirty talk – and why they aren’t.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Play with yourself: Ideas for kinky masturbation

For BDSM, you need at least two people, right? Can masturbation even be kinky? You bet! Here are a few ideas.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Electro Play – BDSM with electricity

Electrostimulation has been used in medicine since the 1950s. However, electro play, which involves stimulation with electricity, is also popular in BDSM.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind

The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Pony play – Poetry in motion…

Pony play is a unique form of pet play in BDSM. In this article, you’ll find out what it’s all about and what makes being a pony so appealing.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

LARP – Role-play with and without BDSM context

LARP stands for “Live Action Role Playing” and is becoming increasingly popular within the BDSM scene.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Humiliation – when shame is put on display

Humiliation in BDSM often involves public exposure. You can find out exactly what this looks like and why you like it here.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Tunnel play: until the (bitter) end

Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Figging – pretty spicy!

What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Punish me! The punishment in BDSM

Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Role-play: escaping into pleasure from everyday life

Role-play is not only a popular way to spice up sex life in BDSM. But why do we actually enjoy role-playing?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Products

Hand and ankle cuffs: Simply efficient

Hand and ankle cuffs are among the most popular toys in BDSM. In this article, we provide an overview of the most common variants. Which one suits you?