What does CNC (consensual non-consent) mean?
CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.
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Playing
Play in BDSM can take many forms, from intense role play to creative scenarios with different paraphernalia. At Deviance, we show you how to explore new dimensions of your fantasies through play. Discover how you can create exciting games and scenarios safely and consensually. Our platform offers you tips, ideas and instructions to make BDSM play an unforgettable experience.
Everyday family life & BDSM – 8 ideas for kinks despite kids
When there are bottles or Lego bricks lying around everywhere at home, it’s not so easy to get kinky. Here are 8 tips to ensure that kink doesn’t fall short in family life.
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I just want to: play!
Why is the term “play” or “play partner” often used in BDSM? While it sounds better than “doing BDSM”, not everyone likes the term.
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Tease and denial – Finding pleasure in frustration
Whether as a heightened state of sexual arousal or as a means of erotic torment and humiliation, tease and denial can be used in diverse ways, even outside of the BDSM context.
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STI and STD Part IV: infection risks in BDSM
The risk of infection for STDs and STIs is significantly higher in BDSM due to the wide variety of activities. Find out here what you need to watch out for.
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STI and STD Part II: the 8 most common
What are common sexually transmitted infections? What symptoms do they present? How are they treated, and what are the chances of recovery?
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How to dom: 12 tips for beginners
You’re a beginner and want to explore BDSM as a Dom, taking control? The following tips for Dom beginners from Gentledom.de can help you with that.
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Playing for the first time: tips and advice
You can hardly wait to finally try out BDSM. But as the first time gets closer and closer, you realize that there are still many unanswered questions.
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Aftercare – What it comes down to
Aftercare refers to the mutual psychological and emotional support of the players immediately after a BDSM session by talking about and reflecting on the experience.
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It’s getting hot: wax play
A tantalizing BDSM practice with a unique visual aspect: Wax play involves dripping or pouring hot wax onto bare skin.
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Your backdoor’s new best friends: anal beads
The pleasure is particularly stimulating when anal beads are pulled out just before or during orgasm. Find out more here!
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Genital torture for men: Ballbusting / CBT
Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.
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Why hands are the best toys
BDSM author Margaux Navara regularly presents new toys. Among them, there’s one that almost everyone already has and doesn’t even cost anything: our hands.
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What the famous safeword is all about
One of the terms that enjoys great popularity outside the BDSM world is the safeword, which indicates the termination of a session.
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