Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.

Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.
D/s is a BDSM abbreviation for Dominance and Submission, referring to the deliberate and consensual creation of unequal power dynamics.
When we talk about a Pet in BDSM, it’s less about our fluffy four-legged friends and more about the Bottom in pet play.
Hand and ankle cuffs are among the most popular toys in BDSM. In this article, we provide an overview of the most common variants. Which one suits you?
Degradation is one of the most common BDSM clichés we encounter, but what exactly does it entail and what does it actually mean?
A Fetishist is a lover of an object or material. For example, diapers, latex, or feet serve as fetishes for Fetishists.
Just a trendy marketing name for parties or a way of life? Does being sex-positive automatically mean sex parties or just that everyone has a place here? And what does that have to do with book clubs?
What is a paddle anyway, and what is it used for in BDSM? We’ll explain what’s behind this popular impact tool.
When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?
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Feminization describes a BDSM roleplay that plays with gender roles and power dynamics. But isn’t that actually misogynistic?
Playparty: An event for BDSM and fetish where people play, explore, and observe. What happens there, who can attend, and what should be considered?
A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.
Tying doesn't always require two. Even tying yourself up alone can unlock new heights of pleasure – as long as you keep some safety aspects in mind.
AB/DL is a fascinating kink where adults take on the role of babies. However, it is not about an interest in children.
TPE means total power exchange in BDSM relationships. Consent, responsibility, and clear communication are even more important here.
Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.
Financial Domination combines money and power in BDSM. A game that uniquely merges pleasure and control, but also carries risks.
PRICK sounds humorous, but it’s a BDSM concept for consent and responsibility. Learn how it helps set clear boundaries and foster communication.
Hentai is Japanese erotica in manga and anime and is the most searched term worldwide on porn sites. This article explores the history, fetishes, and cultural aspects of this art form.