Who hasn’t been there? You have an interesting match, but the spark for the first message just isn’t there. A topic that the podcast “Die Kunst der Unvernunft” has also explored.
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Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a...
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Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.
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