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“Deviance aims to help BDSM-interested individuals who hide their desires from each other to connect. But what are the experiences?” A fetish event is anything but grubby. Here, the BDSM scene celebrates! Organizer Christian explains what matters. Folsom Pride is like a Christopher Street Day for the BDSM and fetish scene. The Berlin branch is called Folsom Europe and takes place every year in September. Pony play may seem very bizarre to outsiders, yet it’s a popular aspect of BDSM. Nighty Swifthoof is a human horse and let us slip into his hooves. Does BDSM belong at Pride? A question that has been much discussed for years. Here are the arguments for and against, as well as a few possible solutions. The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history. Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore. When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it. How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says X blogger NikSput in this interview.
Sought, found, married! Interview with our users
Fetish party: Champagne or dark dungeons?
Folsom Street Fair: From Leatherman to Pride
Hoofbeats and heartbeats: Nighty Swifthoof from stable to spotlight
BDSM and Pride: Should kink be part of the parade?
Christopher Street Day: A brief history
Vanilla? Really?
A love letter to the sense of shame
BDSM and family – Interview with X blogger NikSput
Everyone knows them: the typical BDSM clichés. But is there any truth to them? And where do such prejudices come from? We took a closer look at that. BDSM is often seen as a deviation from the norm, but who defines and determines what is “normal” anyway? Guest author Cassie did some research. Why “Slave” should no longer be used as a BDSM term in public spaces. A guest post from blogger and Twitterer Poly. Crush a few taboos under Pleaser heels like smoked cigarettes after sex. Deviance author Kitteh on why she writes about BDSM. “My contradictory preferences are something I draw strength from.” Why KatKristall, author on the Deviance team, writes about BDSM. “A refined evening among friends, who just happen to all be a bit kinky.” Why Lynn, author in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM. “If I ever stop working with food, I’ll build a Tinder for BDSM!” Marina, founder of Deviance, explains how a joke turned into something serious. “It’s the rage that motivates me to stand up for the BDSM community.” Why Lea, web and app developer in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM. Fetish and fashion have always influenced each other. A story about the relationship between designers and the BDSM subculture.
Clichés and myths about BDSM – stop it!
Diagnosis: Sadomasochism. Do i have a disorder?
The term “Slave” in the context of BDSM
Kitteh – Language-controlled writing offender
KatKristall – Kinkucation with glitter
Lynn – From a dingy dungeon to a wine bar
Marina – Struggle at stigma level 5
Lea – the battle cry of a bore?
Fetish & Fashion – Who inspires whom?
Not the clothing dominates, but the person. However, staging a session and doling oneself up for it can make you forget about everyday life, says Femdom and author Lynn. A sudden breakup, a Tinder acquaintance, and a breakfast with much dismay. How Anna became a Sub thanks to a Cuckold she couldn’t shake off anymore.
The pleasure of staging
The Tinder Cuckold
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