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A to Z

Row, row, row the boat: paddle

What is a paddle anyway, and what is it used for in BDSM? We’ll explain what’s behind this popular impact tool.

Topping from the bottom: your wish is my command

When do we actually talk about “topping from the bottom,” how does this phenomenon arise, and why is it such a controversial term?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Rape play – A sensitive fantasy

What is rape play and what makes this BDSM practice appealing? We’ll explain what it’s all about and what to consider.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Edge play – thrilling experiences near boundaries

In BDSM, edge play refers to practices that involve certain risks to the body or psyche. Games on the edge of the abyss, so to speak.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Products

Blindfold – A popular sensory deprivation

What is a blindfold and why is it so popular in BDSM? We explain to you the attraction behind the sensory robbery.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Pegging: exploring new varieties of penetration

Pegging is a sexual practice in which an active person anally penetrates a passive person using a strap-on, a type of dildo.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Dom drop: Those who fly high can fall low

Despite all precautions, things don’t always go smoothly in BDSM. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a dom drop and what causes it.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Primal Prey – Catch me if you can!

In the BDSM context, Primal Prey is a kind of prey that is hunted, captured, overwhelmed, and conquered by a hunter in an instinctual game.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Breathtakingly beautiful: Breath play

Breath play, or breath control, is one of the most popular but also most dangerous BDSM practices. But what forms and dangers are there?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Sub drop: reaching the lowest point

Despite all precautions, BDSM doesn’t always go smoothly. Here you’ll learn what’s behind a sub drop and what causes it.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Cotton rope: The most popular bondage rope

In addition to jute and hemp ropes, cotton rope is very popular in rope bondage or shibari. Here you can find out what makes it so special.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

Queer: a change of perspective

When you start to explore BDSM and the BDSM community, one of the terms you come across is ‘queer’. But what does that actually mean?

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Instinctive, animalistic, dominant: Primal Predator

A Primal Predator in a BDSM game acts like an animal, following its instincts. Find out what kind of thrill lies behind it here.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Noble pleasures: Exploring the prince’s wand

The prince’s qand is a subtype of so-called urethral plugs and is used for the sexual stimulation of the urethra in people with a penis.

by Deviance | A to Z, Basics

How to get covered properly

” ‘to cover’ in the context of dating refers to securing oneself through informed third parties. This is rarely done today by an old-fashioned chaperone but rather by a trusted person who is informed, along with some thoughtful strategies and a mobile phone. Because issues with dates can happen to anyone, regardless of sexual orientation […]