A flogger is mostly used as a sex toy in the BDSM realm. The active act of whipping is called flagellation.
Flogger – A whip even for beginners
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Total control: Master and Mistress
The role of a Master or Mistress refers to a person who consensually assumes ownership of another person with whom they are in a relationship.
How to put on Latex
Those who have ever tried on the shiny material know: Putting on latex is anything but easy. Here you will learn how to tame even the toughest fabric.
A short guide to prostate massage
A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.
Kinky – a bend in sexuality
In general language usage, “kinky” describes sexual practices, concepts, or fantasies that are considered unusual by the majority.
Humiliation through feminization: Sissy
Sissy is a BDSM role that follows a certain kink. A male-identified person undergoes feminization because they find it humiliating.
DIY Paracord Flogger – Tutorial
How about a very personal gift: In this tutorial, blogger Katharina-Sophie shows you how to make your own DIY flogger.
The Middle perspective
The role of the Middle describes a person who identifies with a younger mindset, typically around the teenage age, or shows corresponding behavior.
The Ring of O – History and meaning
The Ring of O gained its importance with the film adaptation of the “Story of the O”. Today the ring is a symbol of BDSM adherents all over the world.
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