Topic
Roles
Keyholder – Playing the key role
Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.
The term Hotwife or Cuckoldress
Often the Hotwife or Cuckoldress is sexually dominant over her partner and her outward play serves to reinforce her dominance.
Switch – Two souls in one chest?
As a switch in BDSM, it’s important that you don’t let people tell you that you have to choose the dominant or submissive side.
Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact
A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.
Ponyboy and Ponygirl: Beyond the tails and rides
Pony play is an animalistic aspect of BDSM. But what exactly is a Ponyboy or Ponygirl? In this article, we’ll shoot the breeze…
Spankee – whipping boy or girl by passion
A Spankee is a person who desires to be spanked for erotic reasons within the BDSM context. But what makes this so appealing?
Dom: short for dominant
Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.
Degradee – Sinking into the ground with pleasure
In BDSM, a Degradee is a Bottom who enjoys degradation and humiliation. Find out more about the role and what the game looks like here.
Inside the mind of a Cuckold or Cuckquean
A cuckold or a cuckquean is a person in BDSM who enjoys the humiliation of watching or knowing that their partner is having sex with someone else.