The Hanky Code is unfamiliar to many now, but it used to be a widely used system in the LGBTQ+ scene. Find out here what the colors mean.
The Hanky Code is unfamiliar to many now, but it used to be a widely used system in the LGBTQ+ scene. Find out here what the colors mean.
For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.
Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.
The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history.
Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore.
When playing with humiliation, you’re also playing with the sense of shame. A personal story about what there is to like about it.
Just a trendy marketing name for parties or a way of life? Does being sex-positive automatically mean sex parties or just that everyone has a place here? And what does that have to do with book clubs?
When online dating, your profile picture is crucial. How do I take a good selfie and how can I score points on a BDSM platform?
How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says X blogger NikSput in this interview.
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Preparing for anal the right way. The experts at anuux explain how to start your adventure relaxed, clean and confident, and why good preparation is the best foreplay.
Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.
Deviance stress test out of home: We put Bedrooms Cologne to the test. Kinky vibes, Hip Hop instead of techno, and an exclusive deal for you.
How kinky is your city really? And where do you actually find kinky munches, play spaces, shops, or events when you’re new to the scene or visiting a different city? With Deviance Places, there is now a central map for BDSM and fetish across the German speaking world for the…
At the end of May 2026, the first congress of the Kink Aware Professional Association will take place in Vienna. A congress for kink? What is it about and why is it needed? Martin Gostentschnig provides answers.
What exactly is a testicle pillory? A testicle pillory, also called a “humbler,” is a two-part, curved arch. These are mostly made of wood. Both parts can be screwed together and thereby clamp the testicles. This is possible in different intensities. Everything is possible, from the light presentation of the…
Discover kinky Berlin from a different angle: why is the German capital considered the capital of kink? Berlin Guide Jeff takes you back to the 19th century...
Whether it’s a committed or casual relationship, a polycule, or a kinky friendship. Sometimes you want to add a third person. Or a fourth, a fifth. Or two new people at once. Or three. You know how it is. For everyone who feels the same, we have something for you…
How suitable are a men’s skirt and lace pants for everyday wear? For the fourth Advent, we tested one model over three days for comfort, style, and event suitability.
A Body Harness combines style, comfort and desire. We tested this sexy model at the Naughty Christmas Market, so read on.