10-points to check: Is my Dom dangerous?
Some people exhibit reckless and manipulative behavior in BDSM relationships. Find out if your Dom is dangerous with this self-check.
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Safety
Safety is one of the absolute prerequisites for making BDSM enjoyable for all participants. It is of great importance that all participants in a session feel safe and secure throughout. This is based on the basic principles of BDSM and should be the foundation of every session. Whether in terms of psychological or physical safety, a general feeling of security must be ensured. This can be achieved through adequate information beforehand. In addition, continuous self-reflection and a careful consideration of the participants are important, as feelings of insecurity can also arise during a game. Deviance assists with contributions on the topic of safety in the BDSM and fetish area.
10 red flags that Subs should pay attention to with Doms
There are specific red flags that can be observed again and again in submissive or dominant personalities. This article is dedicated to “Dangerous Dominants”.
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Playing for the first time: tips and advice
You can hardly wait to finally try out BDSM. But as the first time gets closer and closer, you realize that there are still many unanswered questions.
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13 red flags for dating and relationships
Red flags are warning signs to watch out for in relationships and dating. Here are 13 red flags to pay special attention to in BDSM.
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8 red flags Doms should watch out for with Subs
When people talk about red flags in BDSM, they usually want to warn submissive people. But not all subs are lovely angels.
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Wannabe Dom: Delving into the realm of pretentious dominance
Entering the BDSM scene, both offline and online, you often come across the term ‘Wannabe Dom’. What does it mean?
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8 points for your safety when dating
When two or more people engage in BDSM, the issue of personal safety should be anything but neglected.
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The best and safest locations for your first date
Dating location: The first date in BDSM always brings some difficulties with it. One of them is choosing a suitable location.
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