More than just bondage: Binding involves temporarily restricting blood flow to certain body parts. It’s not entirely without risk.
Tight, tighter, binding
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Pretty tricky: clamps and clips
Clamps for BDSM can be attached to various parts of the body. But beware: Not every body part is suitable for everyone when it comes to pain tolerance.
Your backdoor’s new best friends: anal beads
The pleasure is particularly stimulating when anal beads are pulled out just before or during orgasm. Find out more here!
Slippery little helper: Lube
Oil-based lube, except for silicone oil, is not recommended as it can damage toys and condoms. It’s better to opt for water-based options.
What does polyamory have to do with BDSM?
Polyamory describes a form of love life very common in BDSM circles, where a person has, loves, and maintains relationships with multiple partners.
Flogger – A whip even for beginners
A flogger is mostly used as a sex toy in the BDSM realm. The active act of whipping is called flagellation.
BDSM symbols: Recognizable signs in everyday life
As is common in many subcultures, BDSM sympathizers also use symbols to identify themselves to like-minded people in everyday life. But which symbols mean what?
Total control: Master and Mistress
The role of a Master or Mistress refers to a person who consensually assumes ownership of another person with whom they are in a relationship.
Humiliation through feminization: Sissy
Sissy is a BDSM role that follows a certain kink. A male-identified person undergoes feminization because they find it humiliating.
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