Bondage, in a sexual context, refers to all types of play in which someone is restrained from moving freely in some way.
Bondage: The thing with the ropes, right?
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Yiffing: a furry affair
Yiffing is a term from the so-called Furry scene and refers to any form of sexual activity that takes place between such characters.
Objectification – The thing with things
Objectification is a BDSM practice in which a person is viewed as an object for erotic purposes. Learn here what makes it so appealing.
Humiliation – when shame is put on display
Humiliation in BDSM often involves public exposure. You can find out exactly what this looks like and why you like it here.
Tunnel play: until the (bitter) end
Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.
Dom: short for dominant
Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.
Figging – pretty spicy!
What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.
Playing on a thin edge: knife play
Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.
Punish me! The punishment in BDSM
Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.
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