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Kinks

FLR – When the woman is the boss at home

FLR is the abbreviation for “Female Led Relationship,” a type of relationship in which, by agreement, a dominant woman is in charge.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Kinks

Tight, tighter, binding

More than just bondage: Binding involves temporarily restricting blood flow to certain body parts. It’s not entirely without risk.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Foot fetish: soles on their path to acceptance

Thanks to its high prevalence and prominent supporters, foot fetishism has become one of the most accepted fetishes in our society. But what lies behind it?

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Chastity. Or: “a never cuming story”

In BDSM chastity play, the bottom participant abstains from sex, masturbation, and/or orgasms at the request of the top participant.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Latex fetish – shine bright like a…

Latex or rubber is one of the most common material fetishes. Additionally, this shiny material is often encountered as a sex toy or dress code at BDSM parties.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Golden shower: Just let it out

Golden shower is the term for urine play. Here you can find out what the attraction is, what to watch out for and what you should avoid.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Uniform fetish: Attention!

The uniform fetish is often associated with negative examples like SS uniforms, yet the range of this fetish is more diverse than one might think.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

It’s getting hot: wax play

A tantalizing BDSM practice with a unique visual aspect: Wax play involves dripping or pouring hot wax onto bare skin.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Spanking: beat on beat to ecstasy

Spanking is one of the most popular BDSM practices and describes hitting for the purpose of punishment or arousal. In particular, it refers to the spanking of the buttocks.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Trust is good, but orgasm control is better

In BDSM, orgasm control refers to the prohibition, intentional delay, or enforcement of a partner’s orgasm.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Pretty edgy: Edging

Edging is a specific type of orgasm control in which a submissive person is repeatedly pushed to the limit of arousal.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Genital torture for men: Ballbusting / CBT

Ballbusting” or “Cock and Ball Torture” (“CBT” in short) is a form of play in which the penis and testicles are tormented.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Oral sex royal: queening or facesitting

There is hardly any other practice that allows for the demonstration of power and superiority with maximum pleasure for the dominant person like Queening, also known as Facesitting.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Collars and cuddles: pet play

Pet play refers to erotic role-playing games where a typically submissive partner takes on the role of an animal. Popular choices include cats, dogs, and ponies.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

A short guide to prostate massage

A commonly practiced technique in the BDSM realm is prostate massage, also referred to as “milking”, as it allows for orgasm without penile stimulation.