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A porn film festival, cabaret with a riding crop and a Halloween home stretch that never lets up: these are the best kinky events in October, curated by the Berlin Kink Calendar.
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When it comes to kinky events, the people and their curiosity are what matter, not the rooms. Starting now, you’ll find the carefully curated Berlin Kink Calendar here every month, published by Berlinable.
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Dom, Sub or something else entirely? The Deviance BDSM test finds out in 36 questions which roles suit you best.
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Deviance stress test out of home: We put Bedrooms Cologne to the test. Kinky vibes, Hip Hop instead of techno, and an exclusive deal for you.
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How kinky is your city really? And where do you actually find kinky munches, play spaces, shops, or events when you’re new to the scene or visiting a different city? With Deviance Places, there is now a central map for BDSM and fetish across the German speaking world for the very first time. More than 600 entries are waiting to be discovered.
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Whether it’s a committed or casual relationship, a polycule, or a kinky friendship. Sometimes you want to add a third person. Or a fourth, a fifth. Or two new people at once. Or three. You know how it is. For everyone who feels the same, we have something for you…
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Last Christmas… we already did it and now the continuation with Orion follows. This year we are sliding back into advent with a spark and kicking things off with the exclusively sold out Magic Shiver.
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Who would have thought that Frankfurt of all places would take the lead when it comes to BDSM? Between the skyline and the banks of the Main, the appetite for kink seems especially strong. Our analysis of the Kink Report shows that the capital of banking even leaves Berlin behind when it comes to dirty business.
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Kink Aware Professionals: They are more than open-minded therapists. They understand your world and offer help without judgment. And they’re easy to find! Lern more about our partnership with KAPA.
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Why is Tuesday the hottest day of the week? And why is it really the Subs who dominate? The first Deviance Kink Report reveals it. An anonymous analysis of over 22,000 profiles with surprising results. Take a look!
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Whether it’s a steady play partner crew, a wild meet-up squad, party companions, or a spontaneous session circle: with the group feature, you can now fantasize, tie, or simply think dirty with more than just one person, live and together.
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A guide for your BDSM coming out: tips for self-acceptance, the right time and place, and support for a respectful conversation.
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Kinky, creative, curious: Obscene 2025 brought ropes, shows, and exciting newcomers. Our highlights from the fair in Karlsruhe.
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Video dating is the perfect way to test the chemistry without wasting much time. Here are six sexy tips for spontaneous dates behind the screen.
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Sometimes you want to show what you’ve got – and that’s exactly what you can do now with your new feature: Public Profiles! From now on, you can create a link to a preview of your Deviance profile and share it outside the platform. Whether it’s for curious matches, potential play partners, or simply to […]
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Who hasn’t been there? You have an interesting match, but the spark for the first message just isn’t there. A topic that the podcast “Die Kunst der Unvernunft” has also explored.
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Did you know that you can add Deviance as an app to your home screen? Find out how right here!
Read more →Advent is just around the corner, and we at Deviance have come up with something really special to increase the excitement for Christmas. Together with our partner Orion, Europe’s largest erotic retailer, we’re launching the Deviance Advent campaign – a sensual giveaway that will definitely heat you up in the cold season! 🎁🔥 Here’s how it works: To […]
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Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like in porn. Sometimes it starts very subtly. How do you step out of your comfort zone…
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A fetish fair offers much more than just shopping. No matter which one you attend, you’ll be stepping into a world full of diversity. Find out here how to make the most of your visit.
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Trustworthy fun: Every verified profile helps build a network of trusted members. Together, we’re making Deviance a platform where you can truly let go.
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Finally! The feature you’ve all been waiting for is here! With Deviance Search, you can now filter profiles by identification, orientation, kinks, and more.
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Score, you have a match! But now? Who writes first? And what do I write? The first message in can sometimes be quite sweaty. Here are 69 ideas.
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You’ve decided on a premium membership? Great! Here’s how to manage your subscription and settings.
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