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A to Z

Longing for security: Little

In BDSM jargon, a Little is a person who likes to adopt toddler-like behavior and is looking for a parental figure of reference.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Electro Play – BDSM with electricity

Electrostimulation has been used in medicine since the 1950s. However, electro play, which involves stimulation with electricity, is also popular in BDSM.

by Marina | A to Z, Basics

What is a drop and why does it happen?

A drop occurs when someone cannot emotionally handle a BDSM session and negative feelings take hold. Why this happens and how to avoid it.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Primal – Wild thing, you make my heart sing

“Primal” is a BDSM practice in which participants fully embrace their animalistic instincts, including biting, scratching, and grunting.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Keyholder – Playing the key role

Keyholders in BDSM are tops who hold the key to a chastity belt or similar device, thereby controlling the pleasure of another person.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Products

Chastity belt – Closed for fun

Chastity belt: For some a sex toy; for others, an instrument of torture. Find out here what they look like and what they can do.

by Marina | A to Z, Kinks

Mindful bondage art: Shibari

Shibari is a special style of sexual bondage in which people are tied up in complicated patterns and are rather quiet.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Locktober – orgasm fasting

Every autumn, the hashtag Locktober appears on social media, calling for 31 days of chastity. But why do people do this to themselves?

by Marina | A to Z, Roles

The term Hotwife or Cuckoldress

Often the Hotwife or Cuckoldress is sexually dominant over her partner and her outward play serves to reinforce her dominance.

by Marina | A to Z, Kinks

Ageplay – innocent game or perverted?

Ageplay represents a BDSM role-playing game in which the participants pretend to be a different age than they actually are. Particularly popular: DDLG

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Switch – Two souls in one chest?

As a switch in BDSM, it’s important that you don’t let people tell you that you have to choose the dominant or submissive side.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Fetish party – A Kinky Nightfever

What is a fetish party? What happens there and how much does it have to do with BDSM? Can I play there too? Find out in this article what awaits you there.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Kinks

Needle play: Painfully beautiful

Needle play is a kink that falls into the realm of edge play and should therefore be enjoyed with caution, but promise maximum pleasure.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

Spanker – passionate Top with a knack for impact

A Spanker enjoys beating others in erotic play. Find out here what the attraction behind this type of play is and who matches it.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Roles

Ponyboy and Ponygirl: Beyond the tails and rides

Pony play is an animalistic aspect of BDSM. But what exactly is a Ponyboy or Ponygirl? In this article, we’ll shoot the breeze…

by Ginger San | A to Z, Basics

So… how to get to a BDSM munch?

The culture of BDSM munches is unique to the scene. But what should one wear there? And how does a beginner start a conversation with people?

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Fire play: Literally playing with fire

Fire Play is one of the particularly hot BDSM practices. Quite literally. Heat, danger, and fear create a very special mix.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

YKINMKBYKIO: I don’t understand it, but I like it!

YKINMKBYKIO stands for Your Kink is not my Kink but your Kink is okay. This is a basic principle of the BDSM community promoting tolerance.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Intox play: Is it BDSM?

Intox Play and Chemsex are currently big topics in the sex-positive community. But can playing under the influence of drugs even be considered BDSM?

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Navigating subspace: into the depths of a submissives mind

The term “subspace” is not about the universe but about BDSM. It refers to a trance-like state where the real self dissociates from the role-playing personality…

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Pony play – Poetry in motion…

Pony play is a unique form of pet play in BDSM. In this article, you’ll find out what it’s all about and what makes being a pony so appealing.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Kinks

To hit and to be hit: impact play

Impact play is a BDSM practice in which a person is beaten by another person. This affects both the body and the mind.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

LARP – Role-play with and without BDSM context

LARP stands for “Live Action Role Playing” and is becoming increasingly popular within the BDSM scene.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Basics

RACK – Risk Aware Consensual Kink

The RACK concept cannot be discussed without the SSC philosophy, as it questions the principles of the latter and emphasizes individual responsibility more strongly.