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Yiffing: a furry affair

Yiffing is a term from the so-called Furry scene and refers to any form of sexual activity that takes place between such characters.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Objectification – The thing with things

Objectification is a BDSM practice in which a person is viewed as an object for erotic purposes. Learn here what makes it so appealing.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Humiliation – when shame is put on display

Humiliation in BDSM often involves public exposure. You can find out exactly what this looks like and why you like it here.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

Rendezvous? Au revoir!

Ending a date is uncomfortable. But sometimes there’s just no other option. And that’s okay. Here are a few approaches to remain fair and honest.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Tunnel play: until the (bitter) end

Tunnel play is an umbrella term for BDSM activities that, once started, cannot be stopped. Find out here what makes it appealing.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Roles

Dom: short for dominant

Having control without controlling. Respect and be respected. As well-known as the role of the Dom is within and outside the BDSM world, it is also complex.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Kinks

Figging – pretty spicy!

What does a piece of ginger have to do with sex and BDSM? Deviance explains what figging is all about and what to consider.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Playing on a thin edge: knife play

Knife play sounds like big knives and dangerous play. How exactly this looks in BDSM and where to start can be found here.

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

BDSM breakup – But with fairness and respect

A breakup is never pleasant, whether BDSM is involved or not. But how do I best end things when it’s no longer working out? A brief guide.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Punish me! The punishment in BDSM

Punishment is a central element in BDSM. Find out here what purpose it serves, what types there are and, above all, what you need to pay attention to.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Role-play: escaping into pleasure from everyday life

Role-play is not only a popular way to spice up sex life in BDSM. But why do we actually enjoy role-playing?

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

Sensory Deprivation: BDSM completely out of senses

Sensory Deprivation refers to an popular aspect of BDSM in which the five senses are manipulated, restricted, or taken away.

by KatKristall | BDSM & Society, Stories

BDSM and Pride: Should kink be part of the parade?

Does BDSM belong at Pride? A question that has been much discussed for years. Here are the arguments for and against, as well as a few possible solutions.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Degradee – Sinking into the ground with pleasure

In BDSM, a Degradee is a Bottom who enjoys degradation and humiliation. Find out more about the role and what the game looks like here.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

Fetish by colors: the Hanky Code

The Hanky Code is unfamiliar to many now, but it used to be a widely used system in the LGBTQ+ scene. Find out here what the colors mean.

by Marina | A to Z, Roles

Inside the mind of a Cuckold or Cuckquean

A cuckold or a cuckquean is a person in BDSM who enjoys the humiliation of watching or knowing that their partner is having sex with someone else.

by Marina | Kinky Life, Tips

How to find out if someone is into BDSM

Whether it’s a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, how do you find out if another person is into BDSM or open to try it?

by Kitteh | Kinky Life, Tips

BDSM and alcohol: don’t drink and kink!

For many people, alcohol is a stimulant, it relaxes us and puts us in the mood. We explain why he has no place in BDSM.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Roles

Degrader – Looking down

Degraders are dominant people who enjoy degradation and humiliation. BDSM is about the erotic consensual humiliation of a bottom.

by Lynn | A to Z, Roles

The Slut: a new sexual confidence

Today, “Slut” in the BDSM context describes a sexually confident person. Here, there’s no fixed hierarchy of top or bottom.

by Lynn | BDSM & Society, Stories

Christopher Street Day: A brief history

The origin of Christopher Street Day is an uprising by homosexuals against police arbitrariness. Today parades take place all over the world. An overview of history.

by Kitteh | BDSM & Society, Stories

Vanilla? Really?

Many people are into BDSM without realizing it. Yet, much of what is practiced in the so-called vanilla realm often has nothing to do with consent anymore.