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6 questions to ask before playing

You’re not in top shape every day. Physically and psychologically. 6 questions that will help make your BDSM session a successful experience.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Kinks

The blackmailing game

In BDSM, blackmailing is a role play in which a person is blackmailed. But what can the whole thing look like and what is the appeal?

by Kitteh | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

8 tips for good profile pictures on Deviance

When online dating, your profile picture is crucial. How do I take a good selfie and how can I score points on a BDSM platform?

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Candles in BDSM: things to consider

Candles are used in BDSM within wax play. But be careful! There are several things to consider when buying and using them.

by KatKristall | A to Z, Basics

What does CNC (consensual non-consent) mean?

CNC stands for consensual non-consent, meaning the desire for something to happen against one’s will. Find out what this can look like here.

by Lynn | Interviews, Stories

BDSM and family – Interview with X blogger NikSput

How can family, open marriage and BDSM be reconciled? It’s all a question of organization, says X blogger NikSput in this interview.

by Lynn | Products

How to find the right strapon

Finding the right strapon in the jungle of options isn’t always easy. Femdom and Deviance author Lynn gives tips on how to find the right model.

by KatKristall | How to Deviance, Kinky Life, Tips

How to talk kinky online… and how dafuq not

Profile viewed, smiled at the picture, swiped right. And… It’s a match! But what now? Here are our tips on how to turn the chat into a success.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

Session: it’s time to play!

What exactly is a session? We explain what is meant by the term in BDSM and whether you have to schedule being “kinky.”

by Lynn | Kinky Life, Tips

Everyday family life & BDSM – 8 ideas for kinks despite kids

When there are bottles or Lego bricks lying around everywhere at home, it’s not so easy to get kinky. Here are 8 tips to ensure that kink doesn’t fall short in family life.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Ball gag: The most popular way to gag

A ball gag is the best-known form of gag and usually consists of a rubber ball and a strap for attachment. But what should you pay attention to?

by Kitteh | A to Z, Basics

I just want to: play!

Why is the term “play” or “play partner” often used in BDSM? While it sounds better than “doing BDSM”, not everyone likes the term.

by Lynn | A to Z, Basics

Power dynamic – the heart of each BDSM activity

Power dynamic is one of the most important concepts, the central element of any BDSM relationship or activity, distinguishing it from fetishes and kinks.