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STI and STD Part V: safer sex and BDSM

Due to a wide range of practices, the risk of transmission is particularly high in BDSM. Find out what you need for safer sex here.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Gag – Speech is silver, silence is gold

A gag prevents a person from speaking or screaming, but the appeal lies mainly in the humiliation through drooling and ridiculous sounds.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Sperm stopper – pleasure through closure

A sperm stopper is a penis plug that prevents semen from leaving the penis during ejaculation. Explore why some find this arousing.

by Kitteh | A to Z, Products

Bondage tape – Non stop fun on a roll

What is bondage tape? Why do you use it in BDSM and what do you have to consider when playing with it? A small introduction to this popular bondage alternative.

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

The term “Slave” in the context of BDSM

Why “Slave” should no longer be used as a BDSM term in public spaces. A guest post from blogger and Twitterer Poly.

by Deviance | Fantasy & Experience, Stories

Faster, further, better… about competition in BDSM

Others’ experiences can be very unsettling for BDSM practitioners. Comparisons are inevitable. Guest author Julia on competitive thinking.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Monoglove: Everything bagged

A monoglove resembles a sack pulled over the arms, restricting a person’s mobility. But what should one consider when buying one?

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Tease and denial – Finding pleasure in frustration

Whether as a heightened state of sexual arousal or as a means of erotic torment and humiliation, tease and denial can be used in diverse ways, even outside of the BDSM context.

by KatKristall | Kinky Life, Tips

STI and STD Part IV: infection risks in BDSM

The risk of infection for STDs and STIs is significantly higher in BDSM due to the wide variety of activities. Find out here what you need to watch out for.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Love balls: training of a special kind

Love balls are a sex toy and medical aid for strengthening the pelvic floor muscles of people with vaginas, which can also bring erotic benefits.

by Kitteh | BDSM & Society, Stories

Kitteh – Language-controlled writing offender

Crush a few taboos under Pleaser heels like smoked cigarettes after sex. Deviance author Kitteh on why she writes about BDSM.

by KatKristall | BDSM & Society, Stories

KatKristall – Kinkucation with glitter

“My contradictory preferences are something I draw strength from.” Why KatKristall, author on the Deviance team, writes about BDSM.

by Lynn | BDSM & Society, Stories

Lynn – From a dingy dungeon to a wine bar

“A refined evening among friends, who just happen to all be a bit kinky.” Why Lynn, author in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.

by Marina | BDSM & Society, Stories

Marina – Struggle at stigma level 5

“If I ever stop working with food, I’ll build a Tinder for BDSM!” Marina, founder of Deviance, explains how a joke turned into something serious.

by Deviance | BDSM & Society, Stories

Lea – the battle cry of a bore?

“It’s the rage that motivates me to stand up for the BDSM community.” Why Lea, web and app developer in the Deviance team, is campaigning for BDSM.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Chastity for beginners: silicone cock lock

The silicone cock lock is a relative of the chastity cage and chastity belt, but much better suited for beginners interested in chastity.

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Latex: what is the material all about?

Anyone delving into the BDSM and fetish realm can’t avoid stumbling upon latex sooner or later. The applications are diverse. But what’s actually behind the cult?

by Ginger San | A to Z, Products

Cane – Not an empty threat

As inconspicuous as a cane may look, the more nasty the pain caused by this caning tool is. Find out here what types there are.

by Lynn | A to Z, Kinks

Rimming? Kiss my ass!

The exterior and interior of the anus have numerous nerve endings that respond particularly sensitively to stimulation and should definitely be included in lovemaking.